Am I Cursed?

Is it my village people?

Why am I not making progress like others?


If such thoughts have ever crossed your mind, you are not alone.  Just a few years ago, I was in that same place, wondering why everyone else was making progress in life but me.

My close friend had just gotten married to a girl he proposed to right in my room…. while I was still in a toxic on & off relationship with my then girlfriend .

My other friend (we graduated from the same uni) had just gotten a top job with AirTel HQ in Banana Island earning 650K per month as head of consumer Sales. 

3 guys I knew who were just one street away from me (these people used to come to my house to eat and ask me for money sometimes which I used to give them) had all gotten married and gone to America to join their wives and begin a new life.

Me, I was like omo, na me remain ooo....

At the time, I was earning 150K working with a VAS company in Lekki as an entertainment writer and Digital Strategist.

Now I know you’ll think I was doing well earning 150K per month & working in Lekki (and that’s what a lot of Lagosians pray for)

but when you consider the fact that I was coming from the mainland 5 days a week (and working weekends too)

+ spending 80% of that money on transportation, (I have not even mentioned feeding) or meeting up with house rent at that time.

Can you now imagine how things were difficult for me?

I just wanted a better life for myself and it was at this point that I just kept wondering what was wrong with me!

I needed to know why it seemed like I wasn’t making any progress.

So I looked at the last 10 years of my life and

I began to notice a pattern ...

What I discovered was:

I was engaging in self sabotaging behavior or what you call unintentional self harm.

Why was I doing this to myself without even knowing?

Because of this, I wasn’t at peace!

Listen:  most problems can never be solved if you do not….

Identify the root cause and deal with it ruthlessly.

The reality is: a problem may disappear for a while if you are focusing on the symptoms (which is what most people do) 

But the truth is: 

If you don’t identify the root cause and deal with it once and for all, 

You will just keep going round and round in circles, 

Doing the same thing over & over (or even jumping from one thing to the other) 

Without achieving any significant result.

You may not agree with what I’m about to say next.


Your biggest enemy is not your village people. Your biggest enemy is…


I know it sounds shocking but let me explain:

You see, there are thoughts, belief systems & patterns hidden in the deepest part of your mind that are hindering your progress (most people are not aware of this)

& until you eliminate those hidden limiting beleifs & thoughts, you will always feel stuck and helpless.

After I discovered this, it became obvious to me how I was sabotaging my own success.

At this point, I started doing lots of research. I read lots of great books on personal development and the power of the mind and during my research, I developed a simple 9 step process that helped me uncover the hidden roadblocks hindering my progress.

When I started to implement this 9 step process, at first, I didn’t notice any quality changes in the first 3 months

but in my 4th month of using the 9 step process which I’ll show you, I began to notice a few amazing transformations in my life.

I began to attract & work with top Nigerian celebrities… (the types everyone is dying to meet)

Me & 2Baba
Me & AliBaba
Me & Teni D'Entertainer
Me & Bankuli (Beyonce's A&R) & Grammy winning Music executive
Me (flanked by Linda Ikeji & Mr. Eazi)
Me with Stephanie Busari (Head of CNN Africa)

My name is Muyiwa Lagos, I am the Founder of theGrind Club, a Community for Smart young entrepreneurs & Corporate executives in Africa.

I was also Chief Digital Strategist for a 2 time (present) sitting governor in one of the South South States here in Nigeria (if you're smart you'll know which governor it is).

You see,

I cannot begin to tell you all the transformation my life has experienced since then.

The peace I began to feel

The happiness I started to experience

The bigger deals I began to get

& how finally, I started to taste the life of my dreams.

Ok, I’m not saying I now have everything I ever wanted


these things have helped me, my friends & students to make progress in life

& it can also  help you as long as you are willing to give it a try without a doubt.

The principles in this 9 step process are universal & any man or woman who understands these principles irrespective of birth circumstances, educational level or religious orientation can achieve the life of their dreams.

When I say Principles, I DON'T mean things like Save 10% of your income or work hard and you will surely succeed or that rubbish “aspire to perspire” stuff you see on WhatsApp & Instagram all day.

I am talking about  foundational things that can… 

undo your failures no matter how long you feel stuck 


how irredeemable you think you think your situation is

Now I don’t know who you are or whatever it is you’re currently going through.

  • Maybe you want a better job
  • Maybe you are facing some health challenges 
  • Maybe you feel stuck in a particular unpleasant situation 
  • Or you’re currently battling issues with your mental health

I’m confident that you can use the principles in my 9 step life changing process to take yourself from Where you are today to a much better place, the place you know you deserve.


My mission right now is to help you become a better YOU & to grow not just in business but in life & the things that are most important to you.

Here are some of my students....

Ayola Ayodeji (Awizzy Art)

Using what I learnt from Muyiwa, I have been able to grow my business by over 300% and still get clients that patronize me every month using his method. When I almost lost my business due to a silly mistake, it was Muyiwa who helped me recover it.

- Awizzy, Lagos

Melanin Julia, Lagos

Muyiwa, thank you. I thouht you were too harsh initially but using what you thought me, I was able to attract clients who paid me in Dollars to train them. I no longer feel depressed and have gone along to launch a new content company @Stragco with 2 of my friends.

Thank you Muyiwa.

- Melanin Julia, Lagos

These are every day people like you (there's nothing special about them) so don't say it won't work for you...

Would you like to give my method a try?

To help you get started, I’d like to invite you to join my private community. In this community, you will find amazing everyday people like you who are using this  9 step process to solve their problem and get ahead in life.

As a member of this amazing community, here’s a glimpse of what you’re getting:

  •  Access to my exact strategies, tools & blueprints I used to activate my dreams - This took years of trial & error to finally get it right. I will give you the meat, not the bones.
  • Personal Development Trainings - I will show you how to become A NEW VERSION OF YOU so you can live up to your full potential, find clarity in your purpose & experience true Happiness in life
  • Uncovering your oil wells - I will show you how to Discover, Harness & Package your inner Gifts/ Talents so you can Monetize it & make Kishi (owo, kudi, ego) with it.
  • How to attract the right PEOPLE, CLIENTS, CUSTOMERS & the RIGHT NETWORK TO YOU!
  • Specialized trainings, Tools & resources to build a brand or business, start freelancing or starting a side hustle using the internet
  • Guaranteed support & Access to our private Member Only Community - You will also become a part of a network of kind, non judgemental & very supportive community of young people like you who are already applying these principles to become the best versions of themselves - you succeed faster when there are people who support & guide you till you get results.


  • I will also be giving you a copy of my brand new book for FREE. This book is titled:


… a simple guide to unf*cking yourself & getting your life back starting today.

Check it out below...

In this book you will discover:

  • Why Someone Less Talented than You is More Successful than You & it has nothing to do with Luck or DESTINY
  •  How to Make Best Use of Your Gift & Activate it towards living the life you want - It’s one thing to be talented, it’s another to know how best to make your talent to work for you.
  •  The Exact Steps to take in order to Achieve Remarkable Success with Your Talent
  • How to DO ONLY THE THINGS THAT ARE SURE TO GIVE YOU RESULTS - Did you know activity is NOT equals to productivity? You will learn to eliminate time wasting & energy sucking activities & focus on high value result producing activities
  • The 12  Factors That Matter Greatly when turning your talent into a business (Your Success or Failure depends entirely on a combination of 2 or more of these factors) On pages {30- 34} of this book, you’ll discover the factors.
This guidebook also comes with a workbook which you will also be getting plus other bonus resoures.

Now you’re probably wondering how much you have to pay to get access to this amazing community & claim your bonuses. Just wait until you hear the price. But before I tell you how much you have to invest today, see what people are saying about the book & the other community resources...

Reading this book felt like it was speaking directly to me because I could identify with the valid points raised and addressed. I finished reading it with renewed determination to make some changes in my life.
He delved deep into the experiences of the average person who may feel stuck at their job, in their business, or even academics.
I totally recommend this book to anyone looking to gain insights on how to change their perspectives in order to move forward.

You really did a thing Muyiwa. Thank you for writing this.

-Adaeze N'enwu Ọkụ, Owerri, Author & Entrepreneur

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